So, we can talk about men endlessly. Another thing is to speak with a man. To meet him. Better yet – stir up the novel! But for this you need to talk first at first. Or answer.
“Well, look around,” Nastya lamented, throwing the restaurant’s hall with a disappointed look, “not to even stop at, solid losers! ”
One “loser” decided to come up. But I had to speak with him, since my beloved girlfriend was already very in the role of an inaccessible snow queen, tiredly rolled her eyes and sighed disappointedly, honoring the man only with a contemptuous grunt.
Today we will discuss how you can get acquainted with an interesting man
So. What am I talking! Oh yes! Acquaintance with a man. The points. Of course, it is easier for someone to come up and get to know him herself. Having asked, for example, to light (even if you don’t smoke). Or lend salt and pepper from the table. Or maybe immediately invite you to a white dance. But I somehow never glued with it. Not because I’m afraid or shy. On the contrary, in men’s society, sometimes it is much more comfortable for me than in a female. Just, it seems to me, dating on its own initiative always has a risk.
What if he was not going to meet me? Maybe what seemed to me a hint, it was just a fleeting thoughtfulness. And, if I already came up, he will have no choice but to continue his acquaintance. Unless, of course, he is a gentleman. Anyway, it turns out that I give him a head in advance. I’m already signaling that I liked him the first. I liked it so much that I decided to come up. And when it comes up, you can generate: “Well, I don’t even know what you hope for”.
Yes, maybe often does not match. And not the one to whom you so persistently signaled all evening is suitable for you. Let’s talk about this another time. In the meantime, we will discuss the issue of how to behave, so that exactly the same!
What will help us get to know the man of your dreams
1. Friendliness
No wonder I gave as an example the behavior of Anastasia. This is an example of how you should not behave when you first get acquainted with a man. It is worth remembering that the man is also scary! He gathered his strength for a long time to get acquainted with you, hoping for your location. You probably conquered him with your beauty and manners, and then Bach … and a cold sobering look. It happens that the gentleman is not the one you dream about, and I want to immediately put dots over “th”. But take pity on the man and put them tactfully and softly, not humiliating and making it clear that you are not ready to continue the evening.
In addition, perhaps the one about the acquaintance with which you are already five, as you dream, is watching you. Maybe he also wants to come up. And, seeing such behavior – alienated and self -confident with others, and he is inhere to make a conversation with you. Suddenly you look at him like that, and he will turn into stone.
How many times men met me and confessed love to me, I heard the phrase as many times like: “I came up only because I had drunk for courage, but I wouldn’t dare to be sober,” or “I already wanted to say it for a long time, but I could be able Only now “(of course, being a little under the SAFE). And I was tormented by a vague guess – maybe something wrong with me. I’ll look in the mirror – everything seems to be so. Maybe my behavior is too inaccessible. So no, I seem to have it to myself. Why are they so afraid that the sober cannot even speak!
Yes, just the shy people of the man here are all. And whatever the girl is more beautiful, the more swollen. And if her nose is also lifted above the ceiling, then they, poor fellows, when they reach the condition to get acquainted with you, alas, they will not be able to go.
Conclusion: if you want to attract the attention of someone definite, or just get to know an interesting man, lead a friendly, coquettishly, not too relaxed (so as not to seem accessible).
2. Openness
What is openness? This is the same friendliness, simply dressed in the form of our inner sensation. This is readiness. Simply, readiness sounds somehow vulgar, is it not so? But not in the sense!
Readiness for acquaintance, for the appearance of a man in our life. After all, how often you can hear from women – “Nobody meets me”. And immediately accusations against men are pouring on how they transferred and that they are not needed at all! And the point is that for acquaintance you need to be ready not only externally, but also internally. The mood is important! When we go somewhere with the intention of getting to know an interesting man, to meet our fate, it will certainly appear on the horizon. Because we are open for communication and are ready for its appearance. And when we think to ourselves: “Yes, you gave me everything to a fig”, this will certainly affect our appearance, in the gaze, in the manners. And the man, even wanting to meet, will fall into this negative field.
Conclusion: to get acquainted with a man you need a mood. It is necessary to really want this and there is no doubt that it will happen, and not think “well, who will meet me”. After all, you are the most beautiful!
3. Signs
Of course, in order to attract anyone, if a look has already highlighted a suitable individual in the crowd, it is necessary to signal him. Otherwise, he may not take decisive steps. Men, nevertheless, need to push. Unobtrusive.
And in this regard, to get acquainted with a man will help us with a look. So, view techniques for the first acquaintance.
“First signal”
First glance can be fleeting, as if, in passing. It will look like you to look around others, perhaps look for someone familiar, or, bored, decided to look around. More convenient if the view of the “object” is also directed in your direction. Then he will definitely notice. Slowly glancing, do not stop him at the “object”, and then, already slipping further, suddenly return and look at him. As if you did not notice him in the crowd at first, and then, it turned out to you that you saw a friend. If he notice, this will be the first signal. He may even think that somewhere I have already seen you.
“Basic signal”
When we gave him a topic for thought, we must once again remind ourselves more clearly. This is akin to the already known technique of triple view. But it is not necessary to arrange a whole shootout with eyes, just shoot a little. If he also became interested, he will understand. And if not, then why do we need it. Ey you will again inadvertently look at your “object”, and, having caught his gaze, lower your eyes (for example, on a glass of cocktail), as if they were embarrassed that he noticed, be sure that he would not look away from you. Then, you can cast another look at him, from under the eyebrows, so playfully-flirty, cunning. After making sure that he is looking, you can smile and embarrassedly look away. It seems like – “I have nothing to do with it”.
There is another technique of “gaze” – for more bold. When using such a technique, we look at the “object” directly into the eyes, catching his gaze. And after a few seconds, we look away to the side, and do not lower our eyes down. In this case, it will be most spectacular to portray this in a compartment with a certain degree of insidiousness. You can with a small grin on the lips. Only not with a grin, but with a grin – languid and subtle, corners of the lips.
Conclusion: And yet, even though we think that when a man’s acquaintance, looking primarily at the chest, their eyes are also interested in their eyes. After all, the eyes are a reflection of our intentions, interest. With the help of a look, you can say a lot. And such a thing as acquaintance, the look is of great importance.
4. Behavior
Most likely, our manipulations with views and smiles will interest him, and he will find a way to approach. But now – then he needs to answer. It all depends on what role you chose for yourself – fatal, flirty, playful, modest, liberated, etc. D.
But, in any case, do not suppress a man. Let him joke, will be leading in a conversation, comes up with ways to captivate you. After all, this, on the one hand, will immediately give an idea of him, about how sociable and resourceful he is, about whether he can communicate with women at all and what is. And on the other hand, he will give him the opportunity to prove himself, relax and interest you. In general, the flag is in his hands. And your task is to laugh at his jokes and play along. Of course, if they are adequate. Show how an interesting person you are, you can also on the first date, which will most likely take place. In the meantime, it is better to stay a mystery to him. Which he wants to solve.
Conclusion: Perhaps men like active and initiative girls. But he will be pleased if you let him feel that he is managing the situation. After all, this is a kind of game, and the name is flirting to her. And flirting is the first assistant to meet a man.
But do you know how to flirt? Our test will tell about this.
By the way, according to men (from the first, so to speak), there are types of women whom they, shy and cautious, generally prefer to avoid, read about it here.
About where you can get acquainted with an interesting man, you can talk separately. After all, here you need to know what plan a man interests you. If these are business people, then you can accidentally wander into a cup of coffee in a cafe where there is a business – lunch. If you are interested in creative people, then you can visit the exhibition, theater, concert, or thematic stores (art, musical). If you are interested in sports men who tirelessly watching themselves, then we put on tight leggings in the gym on fitness, or simulators. In general, there are a lot of options here. After all, you can meet your fate at the turn. Even where you don’t wait at all.
As my aunt says, painting my lips, before going out for bread to a neighboring store: “What if my fate is there, and I am with undeveloped lips! “.